I am missing one of my best friend today….i hate missing anyone….it really hurts bad at times….its like at the point of time in your life you have shared a beautiful time with that person and you know it those days will never return….
No matter how much we don’t like to admit it, but a few people can make a big impact on our lives but then go away just like that; a best friend, lover, family member…anyone of them….As much as we may wish it weren’t so, a plain fact of human relationships is this: People come and people go.
Someone that we have loved with all of our hearts one day can, quite literally, vanish from our lives the next. Not necessarily from death. Not even from rancor. Sometimes simple circumstance can take a best friend, a lover or a partner right out of your hands, never to be seen again.
That’s sad. But that’s life.
There are times that I sit in the sun and just think of all the people who have wandered away from me. I remember all of the people that I have wandered away from. And then I wonder, will there ever be a time when they might reconnect?may be yes…may be no…
“People come, people go – they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past.”
There’s a quote that goes something like, “People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime,” which really resonates with my life.
Instead of dwelling on the pain of saying goodbye to a friendship, look at it as a chapter that was filled with many memories and now lessons that will forever live with you. Sometimes we are welcomed by friendships that aren’t meant to last forever, but are meant to teach us and help us grow on our beautiful journeys.
On the contrary, sometimes we have to learn when to let go and continue on our journey. It takes courage to stand up and realize that sometimes you need to move forward.
Life is mysterious and relationships are just another addition to our journey. Through the ups and the downs we must appreciate it, for it’s all a part of who we are today. Not one of us goes through life experiencing perfect relationships; in fact, the only way to uncover life’s treasures is to experience them.
Yes, people do come and enter your life then after sometime, they would leave and that’s it. It was over. It still doesn’t make sense to me but one thing I know is certain. There is always a reason why you knew them. It must not be clear for you that moment but sooner or later, you will discover it.